Have you ever heard about that two of the facts of self-peace are; to forgive and to apologize! I have known this for years and I have been apologizing and forgiving if it is necessary. And I do these actions with no doubt and no hesitation.
I sometimes may break somebody's heart by mistake and someone may break my heart. And if I believe that I was not right then I immedıately apologize. if that person apologizes and I can forgive right away. I do prefer easy going life and endless peace in my life.
There are some people around me who never forgive and apologize. I believe that they dont' know that to forgive and to apologize treat us, for sure.
You know! Life is like Spring.. When Spring starts most of the trees and plants blossom and then flowers become fruits mostly. We humans are reserved and ordered to take the fruits from the branches of the trees. If we dont' do so then those fruits fall down or go off and then fall down onto the earth. Sometimes they can have the roots ın the earth again and sometimes not. The nature is inexpessible and always repeats ıtself. Life and the Nature are so much close to each other. Life is sometimes Spring, another time; Summer and the other time; Fall and some other time; Winter....!!
Then I prefer to forgive and apologize......even if they are my enemies......!!
Farah